My Journey from $19,000/Year to $70,000/Year

I spent my first decade of adult life making less than $40,000/year (after taxes, my maximum income year was $31,800 in 2016 and my lowest while working “full-time” was $19,000 in 2010!).  At 27, I thought I was really doing well when I was offered a job with a salary of $37,000. Even though I didn’t make much, I look back with amazement at how I was able to accomplish so much on so little income.  I traveled to/worked in 10 different countries by the age of 30. I had a wedding ceremony here in the United States and in India. I bought a modern, beautiful house in a decent neighborhood. I bought a very reliable car and paid it off.  I went back to school and earned a certificate in software engineering. Although I didn’t feel secure about money, I was able to do all of this without accumulating lots of debt (although I now have a mortgage instead of rent to pay).

You must always look up to experience any kind of growth
Focusing on one step at a time was key to my success thus far. My plan to become wealthy and make my money work for me will also depend on my ability to focus on one step at a time.

Here are some of the advantages that helped me accomplish so much:

  • My primary residence was Columbus, Ohio where the cost of living is significantly lower than much of the United States.
  • I didn’t have student loans, unlike most of my peers.  I chose to go to a college where tuition was paid for by donations, and my parents were generous and prepared to cover my boarding fees (approx $8,000/year for four years).  I worked at least one job (often two) throughout my college years to cover my living expenses, books/fees, and start my post-grad life with ~$2,000 in savings.
  • My family was very generous.  Both my parents and my husband’s parents sponsored our wedding ceremonies, which were low-budget.  My husband’s family also paid for my ticket to India so that I could meet them.
  • I worked as an ESL teacher, so travel expenses to/from Dubai and Afghanistan were covered by my employer
  • My husband provided financial security and an interest-free loan when I went back to school to learn software engineering.

During those initial years of earning less than $40,000, I also hustled hard.  I used credit cards to my advantage, calculating which cards to use for which purchases so that I could maximize my cash-back bonuses and opening new accounts to receive the bonus rewards.  I completed mystery shopping assignments, offered my services as a private tutor and did side gigs for local tutoring companies and non-profit organizations. I expanded my skill set wherever I could so that I could provide more value in my side hustles.

I limited myself by believing that my career choice was the reason why I was low-income.  Throughout my hustling, I was too shy to ask my employer(s) for more money.  I thought that because they were struggling non-profit organizations, they would not have the funds to increase my salary or provide additional benefits.  I received a promotion and small bonus from one employer and a 2% raise from another employer, but I likely could have increased my income during this time if I had had the courage to discuss my compensation with my employer(s).

As I reflected on my career and life goals as well as observing others with similar abilities, I realized that my current career as an ESL teacher was neither providing me with a sense of purpose nor the ability to achieve my goals of financial independence and the ability to travel more frequently.  I also realized that I was capable of doing something more challenging which would allow me more flexibility and opportunities. I began side-hustling even harder to fund my software engineering certification program through We Can Code IT.  

After working multiple jobs in 2017 and an interest-free loan from my husband, I was able to pay for my software engineering bootcamp in full with a credit card (the points earned from this purchase paid for travel while his parents visited us in the U.S.)!  Within a week of graduation, I landed my first job as a software engineer with a large employer in my area.

Now that I have more than doubled my salary from 2016 to 2018, I am gearing myself up to not only continue to increase my income, but to tell my money where to go for optimal wealth-building and financial security.  I have done my research and developed a $0 budget.

In the past year, I have:

  • Built up a mini-emergency fund ($1,000 cushion)
  • Eliminated outstanding debt and paid for an international vacation without accumulating more debt
  • Opened a Roth IRA in addition to my employer’s 401(k) plan
  • Begun saving up my 6-month emergency fund.  My plan is to save a nice cushion of $10,000 along with sinking funds for planned expenses.

I am so excited to share with you what I’ve learned along the way, as well as strategies to continue to build wealth.  My plan is to live well, work to provide value and grow my income, and make my money work for me.

What are your financial goals and strategies?  What would you like your money to do for you?

Simple Rules for Extended Fasting

Extended fasting is a powerful tool for reducing inflammation, treating hormonal imbalances, and renewing your relationship with food.  It is also highly concerning to friends and family members, as the standard expectation is to eat between three and six meals each day.

While food is our fuel, most of us have eaten an excess amount over the years, resulting in unwanted build-up of fat and other deposits on our body.  By taking time away from eating (note, not restricting calories), we allow our bodies to use stored energy as fuel and clear out toxins, excess, and unnecessary cells.

If you are interested in fasting over 24 hours, here are a few important things to remember:

  1. Replenish your electrolytes.  As your insulin level drops, your body will eliminate more fluids including sodium, potassium, and magnesium.  Low electrolytes levels may cause:
    1. Headaches
    2. Fatigue
    3. Muscle cramps
    4. Nausea
    5. Irritability

To replenish, add sea salt to your fast.

  1. Drink water.
  2. Find something to do.  Not only will you have more energy than you expect, you will want to avoid boredom.  Most people lose willpower when they are bored and want to snack/think about food. The more you forget that you are not eating, the less food will be on your mind.
  3. Know what to expect.  Typically, only the first few days will be difficult physically.  On days one and two, your body will send out the hunger hormone (ghrelin) at your normal meal times.  You may also experience a headache on your second day which can be treated with electrolytes/sleep.
  4. Listen to your body regarding how and when to break your fast.

Benefits of Waking Up Before 6:00 AM

As someone who’s not a “morning person”, this is my typical wake up time calculation:

Wake up time == Scheduled Activity – (Time Needed to Become Presentable + Transportation Time)

On weekdays, this is usually:

7:00 AM == 8:00 AM work – (30 minutes + 30 minutes)

Sound familiar?

This month I am learning to become a “morning person”.  Choosing a wake-up time was a challenge–I could simply wake up an hour early, but would this give me enough time to really feel a benefit?  What was the likelihood that I would just snooze my way from 6:00 AM to 7:00/7:10AM?

While learning more about Ayurveda, I realized that there was some logic behind my often sluggish mornings.  Kapha, the energy of earth/water, dominates the time between 6:00 and 10:00 (both AM/PM). If we wake up during this time, we usually feel sluggish and heavy. By waking up before 6:00 AM, we avoid feeling the need to go back to bed/hitting the snooze.

Ayurvedic Time Cycles, Repeated Twice A Day

The kapha cycle is ideal for physical activity.  Our muscular system is at its peak and our cortisol level rises.  This is not the time to eat a heavy meal.

Ayurvedic texts recommend starting the day with deep breathing, elimination, lukewarm water (lemon may be added), exercise, and meditation to make the most of this time.

January Challenge: Waking Up Early Each Day

I’ve never classified myself as a “morning person”.  During my teenage years, it wasn’t uncommon to sleep until 11:30 AM on a Saturday morning if nothing was planned.  These days, I set my weekday alarm for 6:30 AM, but usually hit “snooze” 2-3 times and don’t get out of bed until 7:00 AM.  Since I try to leave the house at 7:30 AM, this leaves less than 30 minutes to brush my teeth, get dressed, drink a glass of water, and grab what I need for the day.  Sometimes I set up the coffeemaker the night before and enjoy home-brewed coffee in a to-go mug at work and an additional cup at home, but this is usually a luxury.

This leaves me feeling rushed from the beginning of the day, leaving anything I want to do for myself for the evening.  After a full day of work, I also want to spend time with my husband and chill, so things I want for myself are put off for the next day.

These things might be:

  • going on a walk
  • working out
  • meditation
  • yoga
  • journaling/setting intentions
  • reading a book/listening to inspirational videos
  • errands

I want to create more time in my day by front-loading it with things I choose, rather than playing catch up throughout the day.  I will be setting my alarm and getting out of bed by 5:30 AM every day–even on weekends! My goal is to look forward to time in the mornings, as this time belongs to me and no one else.

I will document what strategies actually help me accomplish this, how I feel, and how I actually make the most of this extra time in the morning.  I expect that the biggest challenge will be going to bed at a decent hour–this can make things awkward socially and without sleeping early, I will not be able to get enough sleep with this challenge.  

Monthly Challenges

In my quest to create my best life (more on how I define that later), I plan to embark on 30 day challenges each month of 2019.

Not only does doing something every day for a considerable period help to form new habits, but it also provides enough opportunity to determine if that lifestyle is something worth maintaining.

I’ll be using my new Commit30 Planner to help me with these challenges. This planner was my Christmas gift to myself and I’m super excited to begin using it!

In addition to the typical planner features and calendars, each month has a section to track a monthly goal.

January Monthly Goal pages

This first month should be informative, as I picked my most intimidating goal to start with. Stay tuned!

About Me

That Goddess Life is a community for glamorous women who are trending up! If you are someone who is journeying toward her best self and connecting to her inner goddess, you will feel right at home here.

After leaving behind a strongly religious background and struggling to find my identity, I set off on a journey to improve myself and tap into my potential. I studied personal finance, health, wellness, and Ayurveda. I reinvented my career and doubled my salary. I began letting go of the guilt and fear I was taught and explored my sexuality and desire. I learned that in order to tap into my true potential and power, I didn’t need to “do it all”.

Instead, I focus on the high-value habits and rituals that awaken my best life